What One Generation Knows…The Next Generation Learns: Morals and Loyalty
It seems to happen far too often nowadays: disloyalty and lack of support within a family. Aren’t family members suppose to be who you live for and the individuals that you will back up no matter what? It seems that the practice has become relatively lost.
Generation Y is a very liberal group, we all know that. We do things our way, and if we don’t get it our way, we’ll find a way regardless. If we don’t like something, we will disregard it because we don’t “need” it. We live and think freely…but are we always right? Not always. As usual, we can always learn from the generations before us.
As you were watching the Father and Son video posted above, did you stop to decide as to whether you were the father or the son? If you are the father, then you’re an individual who has utmost loyalty towards your loved ones, no matter what. This is usually the case of Baby Boomers. If you are the son, then you’re an individual who is not likely willing to put up with the nonsensical individuals in your life because of the stress they put on you. This is usually the case of Generation Y.
Now, I know the examples above are taking two completely opposite sides of the spectrum and obviously there will be exceptions to what I’m saying. I am merely speaking in a very general sense as to the direction that the current world is heading towards, so please don’t hate :).
In our current times, people play out their lives way too much out of emotion and pride. It seems like there are too many situations in which children (which includes adults) of parents abandon or lose communication with their parents. It’ll stem from the children hating the nagging, restrictions, or “embarrassment” of their parents. How quickly we forget the positive aspects of our relationship with our family members. It is natural and human nature to allow the negative overpower the positives, but that is not the way it should be. Take the time to step back, reflect on the positives, and do not lose something precious. If you let the negatives take over for too long, then when you’re finally ready to change your situation, you will have to overcome another obstacle: your pride. We all know that’s a big hurdle in itself.
Once again, I know that every situation will vary and what I am saying here will not apply to everyone. But if it’s not you, it may easily be your friend, relative, or future person you may meet. Help them understand these principles and they may forever be grateful.
An additional note is that the principles that the video teaches are not only geared towards family. It also counts towards every relationship you may be in. Don’t forget the positive aspects of any relationship. The positive factors are the ones that should determine your relationship.
Continue to appreciate those you love, but never forget those who have loved you.
